tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744434374112731330.post6808168815232515551..comments2023-08-02T08:53:53.156-06:00Comments on WWNED: I don't know what to call this. courtneykearnshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06376693015824600448noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744434374112731330.post-33807945224281181442013-11-15T13:45:19.465-07:002013-11-15T13:45:19.465-07:00Same. I dated a guy who told me I was everything h...Same. I dated a guy who told me I was everything he could have wanted but suddenly one day he was gone. For no reason. And I was crushed. I was so confused. If I was everything, why leave? Bu then I realized it must be because he wasn't everything to me. And that's what matters. You said it right in your post. Maybe you don't want him. And just because he's there doesn't mean you should want him. Keep your eyes open even if you think the sun is staring into your eyes.<br /><br />Em<br /><a href="http://www.emmajphelps.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">Tightrope to the Sun</a>Emma Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07796214471206750069noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744434374112731330.post-33081496077850164732013-11-14T21:40:00.395-07:002013-11-14T21:40:00.395-07:00All I know is that one day it will all make sense....All I know is that one day it will all make sense. I know that's a really crappy answer but there it is. I remember feeling so frustrated and lonely. Like, really lonely. A lonely that is palpable. Yet, I was surrounded by people I loved, and who really loved me back. I remember worrying that I was going to have to "settle" for someone and something that wasn't all me and I promise you that I didn't settle. You need someone who sees you for who you really, truly are... and I'm not sure but I'll bet the list of men who see you is a short one. That doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you, it means that you are just that awesome and someone not as bitchin' doesn't get it. Don't worry. He'll show up. And it will all make sense.Aliciahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00866774430341090033noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-744434374112731330.post-51017086487313360132013-11-14T06:44:19.306-07:002013-11-14T06:44:19.306-07:00I feel like I went through omething really similar...I feel like I went through omething really similar so... What I discovered was that I didn't want to be that girl anymore. For a while it was fine, but then it came to a point where I said, no, I don't want to be the girl everyone runs to but no one wants. <br /><br />It felt good to be the run to girl though. I had friends I really cared about, and it felt good knowing they needed me, and they wanted to be around me because I could fix them for a while. But it came to a point where I realized I wasn't getting what I needed.<br /><br />I needed to say no sometimes. I needed to say no, this isn't right for me. I'm glad it's working for you, but it isn't helping me... You know? It's ok to be selfish. In fact, the ones who really want you will love it when you say no. When you say, I care too much about myself and what I really truly want to choose something that's good... But not great right now.<br /><br />I realized I needed to say no to good, and choose great.<br /><br />And there's a blog post of a comment for you.Madelinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12664470421091752887noreply@blogger.com